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Getting Real

When you tell your kids the truth about things, how much detail do you give them?
Jeremiah and I went shopping yesterday. He wanted to spend his Target gift card that Aunt Nat and Uncle Jay got him for his birthday.
Somehow, abortion came up in our conversation. I didn’t know how much detail to go into, but I shared a bit. He was, expectedly, upset. He said, in a very sad, very wise voice, “I never even knew such a horrible thing existed.”
I know, Buddy, I know.
Is 8 too young to know about such things? Sometimes I think it’s not young enough, but I couldn’t talk to him about it in detail before.

Let’s talk imaginary friends….Have you ever had a four year old who could not admit that his imaginary friends were pretend? Jamin has two friends from church who do not exist. Trio and Chuck. He says they are both little boys who are in his class. He says his best friends are Jackson (real child), Chuck and Trio. Do we go along, try to convince, ignore, what? I can’t recall Jeremiah or Josiah ever having imaginary friends like this…

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Second Week of Biggest Loser Down!

And I lost another 4.4 lbs!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so excited and proud of myself. A little bit really makes a difference!!!!
Also, my incredible Team-mate Allene sent me a WW calculator and book!! This will make it even easier to do!
Keep praying for me to keep on keeping on!!! :)

 

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First Week of BL Down~

and I am down 3.4 lbs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’m so excited!!!!!!!!
I need to up my water, up my exercise and make sure I have plenty of fruits and veggies to snack on. I hope next week is even better! :)
Jeremiah had a great Birthday. He is such a sweet boy and I love him so much. :)
Please be praying for Josiah. He just hurt his private area…Got it closed in a drawer. :/

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BL Starts Today!

Well today is the big day! Biggest Loser HK Style starts today! My weight? 183.8 (don’t laugh at me, I know it’s awful!). My goal weight, by the time this round is over, is 150. Think I can do it? Pray for me!

I know this song is not about weight loss, but it’s really encouraging me today, so I thought I’d share it with you! :) Don’t Miss Now

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Glutton for Punishment!

Not only am I doing that 36 thing, I am doing a Decluttering challenge, and now a weightloss challenge (Biggest loser at HK). Thankfully the last two overlap with the first, or else I’d consider myself insane. :)
Any ideas for a real weightloss meal plan? I know my body does better with low carbs, but I’m not doing Atkins.
Whatcha think?

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Happy New Year!

Another year down. Doesn’t 2012 sound unreal to you?

This is going to be a big year for us, I can feel it. For one thing, I have joined in an exciting challenge on a forum. It’s a spin off that huge thing 1001 in 2012 – which I would never attempt in a million years! Instead we are focusing on 36 things to do in 366 (this year is a leap year!). I really don’t feel comfortable sharing the whole list here, because not just friends read the blog. If you’d like to know what I’m doing in detail, I will email it to you if you comment about it and make sure to include your correct email. :)

Here is the bones of it though!

1. Get the kitchen/laundry area/pantry organized

2. Change boys’ rooms and master bedroom back

3. Make a menu, Implement and STICK TO IT.

4. Work on songs to get a full lullaby album made

5. Complete freezer meals

6. Get little boys potty trained ( Jamin is almost there! Jace has just started )

7. Get HA stuff shipped!!!!!!!

8. Divvy up tax check, buy those items

9. Decorate DOWNSTAIRS

10. Paint in most rooms

11. Me – shower each day before doing anything else

12. Ceiling lights (with or without fan) in following rooms (need brother to help):

13. Get legal things done

14. Get all major appointments set

15. Purpose to NOT use computer until at least one chore is completed!

16. Organize shed

17. Blog at least once a week

18. Take a photo of each child at LEAST once a month (more hopefully!)

19. Have Jeremiah ready for 3rd grade math by the end of the school year

20. Get to church at least 80% of the time and be ON TIME

21. ^ Which means work on making sure boys are more healthy
- make sure kids and I take vitamins

22. Be the best wife I can be

23. Be the best Mama I can be

24. Go out on a date with hubby 1x a month, have home dates 3x a month

25. Go out as a whole family 1x a month

26. Have a family game time 2x a month

27. Let the kids help with cooking/baking more

28. Focus on THANKFULNESS in everything

29. Read my Bible DAILY

30. Lose at least 24 lbs in the year (but more is better)

31. Memorize at least one verse per Month with the boys

32. Get some digital scrapbook pages made – at least one per month per boy, so four per month.

33. Have the kids trained with Accountable Kids program by 2013

34. Put home videos to discs in order

35. Drum up business with websites

36. Get the garage cleaned out and organized

 

The boys are getting SOOOOOOO big. Jace is such a big rotten menace it’s not funny! I mean it’s like he has 25 hands. But he’s still cute as a button. His smile can melt anything. He is also a great hugger and snuggler so no one can stay upset with him for long. Jamin is almost totally potty trained. He even went two nights being totally dry! Unfortunately he woke up this morning wet. :( So he has to start over (I told him he can wear undies to bed if he wakes up dry every morning in a week). He is on vacation from Speech class, so I’m working extra hard with him at home on speaking correctly. He’s doing great! Josiah is having a really good week for the most part. He is listening and focusing pretty well. He’s drawing a lot this week too. Jeremiah is back at the daily grind of school! He’s having some attitude issues, but nothing awful. It’s been kind of interesting to see how all of them are reacting to my new “rule” of no t.v. or computer until at least ONE chore is done. I was expecting them to be really awful about it, but they have actually been pretty good about it! What a blessing! I know it helps when I hold myself to the same standard, so I’m a better example. :)

Well I hope you have a wonderful start to your year! I’d love to hear your resolutions, or just your new plans, if you’d like to share. :)

God bless you and yours! <3

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Another dry spell?

it’s been a long time since i’ve posted again. four birthdays have come and gone!!

Jamin turned 4 on Aug. 9, Josiah turned 6 on Aug. 12, Jace turned 2 on Sep. 28 and Jerry turned 39 on Sept. 30. hard to believe, all of them!!!!

i also lost a very dear friend from high school. she is in heaven with our Lord now, but i really miss her! i love you, Amy!!!!

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homeschooling is going well. i’m enjoying the new curriculum, and the boys finally seem to be getting into the swing of things. :) any day now, we are going to implement Accountable Kids for the whole family. mama needs to be held accountable just as much as the boys do! how can they really learn when i have fallen so far behind!?

i have always been a messy person (despite the ‘i’m creative, not messy’ button i was always so proud of!) and i’m not pleased with that. i want to be able to take care of the home God has blessed me with, to make it a haven for my hard-working hubby and a place my kids can feel comfortable in. it seems more often than not, they feel stressed because of the clutter and mess, and act out. i realize since this is a life-long thing, pretty much ingrained in me, that it won’t be easy to beat. i’m going to have to cut a lot of other things out to make sure that my time is spent more wisely. but i’m hoping that as i go on, it will become easier and easier, and the kids will learn what the right thing to do is, where cleaning is concerned. i’d appreciate prayer about it, in case anyone is reading. ;)

oh i just wanted to thank the Lord for this absolutely GORGEOUS weather we have been having! it’s like a nice summer or perfect spring day. it’s amazing!

well that’s it for now. i’m going to leave you with a song that i just can’t get out of my head. the parts i love are the chorus and the bridge; the bridge is my favorite though.

But You love me anyway
It’s like nothing in life that I’ve ever known
Yes You love me anyway
Oh Lord, how You love me
I am the thorn in Your crown
But You love me anyway
I am the sweat from Your brow
But You love me anyway
I am the nail in Your wrist
But You love me anyway
I am Judas’ kiss
But You love me anyway
See now, I am the man who yelled out from the crowd
For Your blood to be spilled on this earth shaking ground
Yes then, I turned away with a smile on my face
With this sin in my heart tried to bury Your grace
And then alone in the night, I still called out for You
So ashamed of my life, my life, my life

But You love me anyway
It’s like nothing in life that I’ve ever known
Yes,You love me anyway
Oh Lord, how You love me
You love me, yes You love me
How You love me

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Summer sickies

so who was it that first said there is less sickness in the summer? because it’s not holding true in our household! all four boys have a cough, and Jeremiah, since his immune system is much like mine, is also vomiting. today is his last day of school, and he’s home, feeling miserable.

so i guess today is the first day of our official summer vacation! which means we will start doing “summer school” tomorrow. my plan is to run through K math with Jeremiah and Joe, and eventually get through 1st math with Jeremiah, so he can start 2nd math in the school year. i’m hoping he’ll whiz by most of it, since there are only a few things he’s getting caught up on. Jeremiah is also doing lots of reading for the summer. he’s going to do the K readers and 1st readers to be ready for 2nd in the fall. not that he’s not ready – he is an AWESOME reader – i just want him to have the wisdom from the CLE readers. they hold really good character lessons that i think he needs to retain. Josiah read through the first reader from the K system yesterday. i’m really proud of him. it seems the boys are natural readers and once they start, they fly! that makes me happy. i hope Jamin will be the same, but i don’t know.

i am so worried about Jamin. he still has absolutely no interest in pottying. it’s causing major strain around here. i may just have to go old-school and decide he is going to do it, whether he wants to or not. the only thing is, i really wanted to see what’s wrong with his system before “forcing” the change on him. he still has chronic dia. every day…i could use prayer about this situation.

poor Jace is on his second day of a fever. Jamin’s only lasted a day, Joe never had one, and Jeremiah’s first is today. so if he’s not feeling better tomorrow (and his fever isn’t gone) i’ll be calling the dr. he is still so darling, but he’s in misery. :(

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Lots of Change!

Jeremiah is almost done with school for the year. We have decided to homeschool full-time next year. I am super excited about it, as I almost have all the curriculum this time, and have looked through it and love it! I am going to use McRuffy Math and the rest (LA, Reading, Soc. Studies, Science) we’ll use Christian Light Education. We will use additional Spelling, History and maybe Health gathered from different sources. I hope to have an extensive list of what we use, as well as our schedule, posted at least before school starts.

I am just so excited! :) I’m also very thankful to have gotten EVERYTHING used, so decently priced, so far! I know I will need to get most (if not all) of the workbooks brand new, but that’s fine. I almost have ALL K, 1st, 2nd and 3rd items bought! That is quite a feat for us.

I have to brag on my boys a bit! Jeremiah wrote part of his first song. It is really beautiful, too. Including all spelling errors (only one really!): I love you Lord. I love you more then anything. You are the light of my heart. You are the BEST. /// Isn’t it beautiful?! And today Josiah read 9 Hooked on Phonics books! He is so proud of himself and I am so proud of him too. I love my big guys!!!!

Couponing is going well. Now that we have started and I’ve gotten pretty used to it, I know there’s no way I can go back! I really feel awful buying anything full price now. I am going to start including my couponing stuff on here too. This is going to be a family blog, budgeting/couponing blog, homeschooling blog, and more! It won’t be so boring anymore – I am going to post on it. :) Yes, some posts may be really small, but that’s fine with me!

Oh, tomorrow we are going to the PBS Kids at the Park! The boys have been counting down the days for a month and a half and it’s finally almost here! They are going to meet the Kratt brothers from Wild Kratts and Zaboomafoo. I hope to have lots of photos!

God bless and hope you’re all doing great! <3

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setbacks, frustrations, just babbling

well this has been a really interesting couple of weeks.

1 – homeschooling. it has been a rough time trying to homeschool. i know if i were a more organized individual it would all be fine, but i am not getting anything done, including homeschooling. we were considering putting jeremiah in public school, and (no offense to anyone) the thought was terrifying to me. i called around the Christian schools, and there is NO WAY we could afford them. i mean, even if my parents went halve-sies with us we still couldn’t afford it. so i was truly about ready to put him into school. then i went back to a thought that i’d dismissed in the past: k12′s Hoosier Academies. it’s a hybrid school – 2 days in the classroom, and 3 days at home. the curriculum is provided, as is any help from teachers if the parent needs it. a friend at church is a teacher there. i am actually excited about everything, except for the driving! it’s about a half hour drive. i’m still trying to figure this out though so we’ll see what we come up with. his semester starts feb. 1.

2 – gas leaks. we have had three gas leaks in the past two months. two outside, one inside. the inside one was paired with one of the outside ones this week. we had to go to our nextdoor neighbor’s house while the gas co. looked at it. it was very scary and i’m thankful i smelled it and that we are ok!

3 – sold extra van. anyone remember the van we were gifted a few years back? when the couple gave it to me, the wife said “i hope this is a blessing and not a burden for you.” ever since then, it has honestly been pretty much a burden. things kept going wrong, it was very hard to get the kids in/out of it, one thing after another. in order to qualify for food stamps, we finally we sold it to my parents for a few dollars, in hopes my dad could sell it. well, he finally did! we were so amazed and felt so blessed to have this money to help us out! now we think that it was God saying, “here, you guys are gonna need this soon.” (more on point 5)

4 – 3/4 boys sick – vomiting, dia. josiah is the only one spared – he is full of energy, totally himself. jamin seems to be the worst-off. please pray that they heal quickly. i may have to take them to the dr if it doesn’t clear up soon. jerry and i are also not feeling well, but the vomiting hasn’t hit us (please pray it doesn’t!)

5 – pothole, resulting issues. this is the biggie. the other day, jerry hit a pothole. the tire was blown. he tried to get the tire off to no avail. he had it towed to get it replaced, but they couldn’t get it off either! he had to leave it there overnight, resulting in a missed night of work. he had to wait until today to take it to another place for them to remove it. it took several men 3+ HOURS to get it off, so what should have cost very little ended up costing a lot. and they said “oh by the way, sorry man, the rim is destroyed” oh really? great. thanks so much. so we thought it would be 55 more bucks. still a lot, but not awful. well, when he got back over there, he was told that was the wrong price, that it was actually 110, but they’d drop it to 90. wow what a steal! so we are out 400 and some odd dollars. AND the brakes are going to go out at any moment. this means who knows when we can pay our house payment, i have to transfer money out of the newly created boys’ savings accounts, and it just stinks.

pardon my pity-party. i am so frustrated right now! i realize how blessed we are and i’m so thankful for all that we have and all that the Lord does for us. it just seems like we can’t cut a break. please keep us in your prayers.

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