Christian mom , suzzie and everyone else who has a problem with the password protection,
the reason i have decided to password protect the comments is NOT because i can’t handle advice, but that the way people say things is RUDE and belittling. i don’t expect everyone to agree with me, and i don’t expect to agree with everyone who reads my blog. if you give me ‘advice’ that makes it seem like i’m a bad mother because it doesn’t go along with YOUR personal belief, THAT is unacceptable. HOWEVER, if you give me advice that isn’t what i believe, but say it constructively and kindly, i will listen and think about it. i have a problem with people posting on MY site, sounding smug and having a know-it-all attitude, attempting to make me doubt my parenting skills. OR people who put me down as a person for being a mother in the first place, calling my son names, and being disgusting….these are the reasons that i decided to pw protect the comments. you are STILL free to view my site, but if my guestbook continues to be abused, the WHOLE SITE may end up pw protected. that would be NO FUN for me or for anyone.
i didn’t set up my site as a battle field, and it’s not fun at ALL to be sought out as a target! as it says in my disclaimer, if you DON’T have anything nice to say, please keep it to yourself. if you don’t enjoy this site, don’t come back. if you have something personal you have to comment on, be brave and use the contact form. only i will have your email address, and if i feel your email deserves a response, i’ll get back to you. it seems the people who leave these superior-sounding comments fail to leave any way for me to contact them to respond.
it’s just funny that you think i am so pathetic that i password protect the comments, but you’re being just as cowardly (if not more) when you leave rude comments and don’t leave a way for me to reply to you personally. i DO NOT enjoy defending myself on this site - that’s not why it was created.
i’m just so tired of defending myself. i should not have to be doing this. from now on, i am just going to delete the comments that are rude. if you think that makes me pathetic, don’t waste your time writing something that will be instantly deleted. just leave the site. enough said.